Stichwortsammlung Umgangsformen (Etikette) Bearbeiten

  • Umgangsformen sind Formen und Muster zwischenmenschlicher Interaktion
  • Umgangsformen gelten
    • entweder als negativ: derb, roh, ungehobelt, unhöflich
    • oder als positiv: gut erzogen, höflich, kultiviert, edel
  • Nichtbeachtung der Etikette kann Ausschluss aus einer Gruppe zur Folge haben
  • Umgangsformen sind abhängig von der jeweiligen Gesellschaftsschicht: "quod licet Jovi non licet bovi"


Keyword Collection: Etiquette Bearbeiten

  • one aspect of decorum
  • code that governs the expectations of social behavior, according to the contemporary conventional norm within a society, social class, or group
  • is dependent on
    • culture - what is excellent etiquette in one society may shock in another
    • time: acceptable behaviour yesterday may not be acceptable today
  • a useful social development to define desired social norms
  • are rules to make living together easier and more comfortable and structured
  • etiquette is normative
  • etiquette can be enforced by exclusion
  • the various rules of etiquette are designed to
    • reinforce the group identity
    • exclude others from the group
  • etiquette is wanting to make the difference with other persons (= snobism)
  • good etiquette is often only on the surface
  • violations of etiquette can
    • cause public disgrace
    • hurt individual feelings
    • create misunderstandings or real grief and pain
    • even escalate into murderous rage


  • Modern etiquette instructs people to:
    • greet relatives, friends and acquaintances with warmth and respect
    • refrain from insults and prying curiosity
    • offer hospitality equally and generously to guests
    • wear clothing suited to the occasion
    • contribute to conversations without dominating them
    • offer assistance to those in need
    • eat neatly and quietly
    • avoid disturbing others with unnecessary noise
    • follow the established rules of an organization upon becoming a member
    • arrive promptly when expected
    • comfort the bereaved
    • respond to invitations promptly.
    • accept gifts or favors with humility and gratitude.
    • acknowledge gifts or favors with prompt tokens of thanks (e.g. a thank-you card)